Break-ups SUCK. Facts.
But you know what’s also facts that sucks? Check this out.
What’s even worse and more unfair is that if you were dumped and haven’t gotten over your ex yet, the consequences seep into your life beyond your love life.
Check out these three examples of how being obsessed or in love with an ex isn’t going to do you any favors.
Plus, your ex is not as amazing and unforgettable as you think they are. Classic narcissism, am I right?
You either have to avoid social media like the plague or spend your life dodging bullets, blocking accounts, checking your stories, whatever else nonsense goes down. So basically, you have to live in fear on the internet or just it’s not your fault (*obviously*) but is it there’s either?
Unless you did something truly horrific, it most likely just didn’t work out. This isn’t a zero-sum game where someone is has to be the loser. Most likely, the source of the break-up wasn’t regarding one of you being not good enough. That is a load of BS. YOU ARE ENOUGH YOU DON’T NEED ANYONE TO COMPLETE YOU.
The ability to disassociate from your pain, take a step back, and acknowledge that a relationship ended for gray shade reasons, to process.