Flirting is something many people struggle with and are convinced they are unable to do. The thing is, it’s not rocket science. If you follow some simple procedures you will shock yourself in how much success you can yield without implementing significant effort.
In this article, I will go over a few simple hacks that will up your game exponentially for both in-person and online flirting.
For in-person flirting, arguably the most important practice you can implement is eye contact. Looking someone in the eye shows you are a confident individual who knows what he or she is doing. If you avoid eye contact, you will make the person you are flirting with think you are insecure or it might even confuse them as it sends an unclear signal. Another powerful in-person hack is to change the volume of your voice: if you oscillate between excitement and calm depending on the topic, you will notice that the other person is subconsciously receptive and will mimic your tone. Body language is also a great tool for flirting: if you mimic the way the other person is positioned and how they are visibly expressing themselves, they will feel a subconscious connection to you.
When it comes to both in-person and online flirting, a great way to show the other person you are a worthy companion is by discussing topics you are confident about.. Try to avoid random topics where you lack expertise. Another highly underrated flirting method is directness: by being direct and stating what’s on your mind in a clear and compelling manner, you will show the person you are not afraid to be vulnerable, which will inherently, make them trust you.
Especially with online flirting, a great way to flirt is by ending the conversation at a climax: the art of timing is essential to flirting. By leaving the person hanging at a moment where things have gotten really juicy and interesting, you have psychologically caused them to crave the next interaction.